Multiple Ceremonies for the Same Marriage… Essential or Overkill?

In light of all the Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock weddings (That’s right. Weddings is plural there), there have been some questions raised on necessity. On my way into work this morning, I heard a young woman report that they had just gotten married… again. She followed this testimony with a long sigh and said, “Enough already. We get it. You’re married.”

Many believe that some people, especially celebrities, take having multiple ceremonies for the same marriage a bit over the top. But others would disagree. I’ve known people who have had “location” weddings in Fiji or the Florida Keys that are very personal and private, and then, they follow up that ceremony with another one in their home towns with all their friends and family. What do you all think of this? Is this something that you consider realistic? Can there truly be too much celebration? Or should it be like most weddings, in the hands of each bride?

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Thanks and be sure to make your day as fabulous as you!

Cathy

Make Sure to Pick and Choose Your Battles

Ahhh, yes. The day has finally arrived. The love of your life got down on one knee and shakily asked the words you have been longing to hear. “Will you marry me?” It was even more perfect that you ever imagined. Through tears or laughter or maybe even both, you give him an emphatic, “Yes!” Your true journey of becoming one life has really begun. After the phone calls, hoorays and initial shock wears off, many brides begin to focus strictly on their wedding. And “Why not?” I say. This is your day.

However, amongst the planning and trials and errors, it seems that the groom generally takes the back seat in planning. A friend of mine recently got engaged, and it seems that her fiancé’s new favorite phrase is, “Whatever you want, dear.” Not all grooms-to-be are so apathetic, however. Some really want to play a role and have a say. This is where picking your battles plays a key role. Don’t ruin the wedding day by arguing up until the vows. Compromise with each other and realize that in fifty years, it won’t be about the color of the napkin place settings, it will be about the two of you… No matter what place settings were chosen. What do you think about this? Have any of you experienced problems like these?

Find humor and love in all you do, and you will be sure to succeed. Surprise your prince with something funny and sweet or something he’ll truly enjoy. Make your journey as happy as can be!

Thanks and be sure to make your day as fabulous as you!

Cathy